Planning a Wedding

The proposal happens, and a whirlwind of excitement follows! But, as things settle down and it is time to make plans, where should you turn first?

When thinking of Marriage Preparation you might automatically think of “wedding planning” and all the details of the ceremony and reception. Yes, you are preparing for your wedding day, but you are also preparing for marriage itself, the lifetime commitment you are about to make!  For that reason, in this exciting journey, St. Michael emphasizes a focus on Marriage Preparation, first, and then wedding preparations! It is important to be certain of and plan together for the responsibility undertaken in the wonderful years to come!

Before anything else, even choosing a date, contact your parish to get in touch with a priest! Our office at St. Michael will connect the bride and groom with our Pastoral Ministry Coordinator who will take note of preferences and questions. You will then be connected with a priest to begin your marriage preparation.

It is extremely important to wait until connecting with a priest before booking anything further, including a venue, vendors, and even the church! A church may be available, but the priest may not be. A Catholic wedding needs a Catholic priest, so make sure you have one on your team before moving forward!

The marriage preparation process takes a minimum of 6 months, so make sure to take this into consideration during your time of engagement and preparation.

Couples getting married at St. Michael have a great team behind them! We are here to walk you through the very first phone call, marriage preparation, and liturgy details. As your engagement progresses, we will keep in touch to help you find the proper classes/resources, make reading and music selections, plan your procession, and offer suggestions based upon previous experiences! You will receive more information as you connect with a priest and your Pastoral Ministry Coordinator.

We often are asked about rental spaces for both Rehearsal dinners and Receptions. We have the capacity and ability to assist you with both, depending upon your needs or party size. Please visit our Rentals page for more information.

No two weddings have been the same, and we are here to get creative with you or connect you with the right people and help make your day special! We are honored to be a part of this exciting time in your life!